Confidence Coaching For Women

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Hello, I'm Kirsty Birnstiel and welcome to Cactus Coaching. I'm a personal and business coach and I help women to be confident in life and in business.

Do you believe that all your success is down to luck?

Do you compare yourself to others and end up feeling not good enough?

Is feeling confident in work or life situations a struggle?

Ask yourself - what does your lack of confidence cost you? How does it hold you back?

The good news is - it doesn't have to stay that way. Learn to improve your image and self-esteem and deal with those negative beliefs and feelings once and for all.

Everyone can benefit from coaching. Coaching helps you to look at what is holding you back and for you to understand all the unique, positive qualities, talents and abilities you have!

Coaching has many benefits and can help you with:
- Working towards your dreams and creating strategies to help you get there.
- Helps improve your confidence, resilience and self-belief.
- helps people with performance, setting targets and reaching goals.
- Tackling Imposter syndrome and seeing it for what it really is.
- Being able to communicate confidently and assertively in life and work.
- Stop the constant comparing yourself to others.

I Can Help You With:




Confident Communication




Imposter Syndrome


Limiting Self-beliefs

Coaching helps you stop the crazy mind chatter in your head that tells you all the time that you're not good enough.

Oprah Winfrey

In our coaching sessions, we will be having conversations between us that are supported by exercises and strategies to enable you to grow your abilities and confidence and to end feeling empowered with an awareness of who you truly are and want to be.

As a coach, my role is as a supporter, accountability buddy, challenger (with your permission) and as your cheerleader. We will work together to achieve your very own *individual goals.*

I offer individual coaching sessions as well as group coaching - get in touch to find out more!

Why do I have a cactus as a logo?

Cacti symbolise endurance as it is a plant that can stand up to the test of time and the elements. They represent resilience, strength, individuality and are able to thrive in challenging circumstances. In our lives we will come up against difficult times where we struggle with our confidence - let's harness our inner cactus!

To find out more or to arrange a FREE initial consultation, please get in touch or book a free call below and I will contact you to arrange this.

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Authentic, compassionate & inspiring!

The top 3 benefits from working with Kirsty: Clarity about goals and thoughts - a clear structure to start from. Allowed me time to focus solely on me - remind me who I am and what makes sense to me and what I love and aspire to do. Knowing what career path to seek and follow.

Helen Phelan

Kirsty is an exceptional coach

and has unique deep listening skills and a nurturing style.
Kirsty's background allows her to see the whole person sitting opposite her, the professional and personal.
I often walked away from our coaching sessions feeling she not only cared and really took the time to listen but also kept me accountable to commitments I had made. I highly recommend Kirsty as a coach.

Charlotte Williams,
GVP People and Culture EMEA at Discovery Inc